Don't trust him! Every word out his mouth is lies take it from someone who knows .. his wife of 9 years. I caught him up so many times so many. I love him and when you live someone you love what you hate about them too. Brian makes fake profiles, uses others pictures as his profile. Blames it on me I guess cause I'll be damned if I play boo boo the fool I will catch him up and bust him out every time. Tells females he has a crazy ex girl friend whom stalks him. Umm yes I am crazy I own that. That crazy has got him beat down by my 5'2 123lbs self. Brian military man.. army, Marnie, national guard almost 20 years .. I hate a lier and I hate for someone to think I don't know something because if I ask someone a question I already know in detail the correct answer. You see Brian and I got married with my religion and with this religion there's no divorce only legal separation until 1 of us dies. Plus my daddy didn't raise a fool legal contracts saying not only do I get half his paycheck every week until I die, no divorce, I get out home, properties, truck, every thing. Under no circumstances will our home ever be sold even after I pass. Brian is a good guy. When he's home .at work wow as if he never knew me, our 4 kids (mine but he's dad he helped me raise them) our 8 grandchildren , our home our marriage vows he took promises he made.
You see I always backed Brian even when I didn't agree with what he was doing. Always motivate him for better jobs even found the jobs, filled out the apps all he had to do is show up for the interviews. Did side jobs to get what I wanted and we needed. All the work on getting our home .. he thought he never could own 1 do to his pos. Ex wife only married 3 months. 10 years ago. I did everything finding our home, mortgage , loans. After buying our home the property next door I said I would own it just for the land and within 1 year it's ours. Home improvements. I did everything. Our vehicles. I found them , got the loans and I fix our vehicles when they break down and yes I .. Brian don't know shit about home improvements or vehicles don't let him touch them cause it'll be their last touch lol.
Anyways all I ever wanted was the truth from Brian so we could press reset . You can't reset if there's anything hidden or sweept under a rug.
I found out that my cancer is back and I decided 12 years ago when I had cancer for the 1st time that if it ever returned I'd not do treatment. The 1st time I had cancer. 2 years of praying for death every day. 28 pills 3 times a day. 3 shots every other day .Every Friday driving myself an hour and a half away to have every test known to man done on me. 8 surgeries which I drove myself to and from the hospitals. I kept it from my children the 1st time they we're young and mommy worries about them and everything else .. not them they were children. Since I was a single mom to the fullest .. no child support payments, no Xmas gifts, bday gifts, no cards, no visition . When I divorced their father he thought it was a eraser and reset. He still lives in the same town and my children bump into him from time to time.
So I was all my children had. Working full time, goin to college full time and paying for it myself, our home, vehicles, my children, home room mom den mother girl scouts, sports for each child and yes I attended every game every practice. Every thing on top of pretending I was fine.
So yes I decided if it ever came back I'd rather have good and bad days until the end instead of praying for death every day. So sick from treatment that's post to save you but is killing you.
So I'm sick with cancer .. funeral is already planned. U planned it with our oldest.. Brian wouldn't even come. To help.
I have a bad heart. Heart attacks .. hearts to weak for treatment, and I can't do anything about my weak heart because I'm to weak from the cancer eating me slowly.
So yes I'm trying to make my marriage work. What kind of man .. fuk that human being does someone they love .. whom has always been there. Dirty when their sick and dying.
So he makes tons of profiles. Dating websites .. tons and tons!
Hookup apps .. fuk apps .. 1 night stand in your area.. in any area. He lies about where he's is at location. Lies about his age. Being married. Having children. His job. Income. What country he is .. what he's into .. he hates cats .. lies about loving and owning cats. Wanting to be a dad. LADIES HES STERILE HAS BEEN SINCE BIRTH HIS URETHRA IS NOT CONNECTED TO HIS TESTES AND EVEN IF IT WAS WHICH WE ACTUALLY WANTED TO HAVE A BABY BUT THEY TRIED TO TAKE SEMEN DIRECTLY FROM HIS TESTES ZERO SPERM 7 DIFFERENT SPECIALIST ALL OVER THE MIDWEST .. $30,000 trying to have another baby Brian's 1st .. and NO!!! so don't lie and say your pregnant. To tryin and trap him (been through that with him before and this is part of the reason we know and have paperwork) $150,000 in child support.. for a child he knew nothing about until he was almost 10 . She faked a mail in DNA test .. kk Brian wasn't her 1st jackass and won't be her last. She's married. 1 child. Never has had a job. Never even tried to fill out an app in her 36 years of life. Works the system. Ssi for her and her husband which she claims their separated and divorced. Not true! Ssi for her son which she keeps in special classes with IEPs so she can keep getting ssi and benefits. Food stamps. Medical. Hud. Carrying tree . Child support from different guys she's played . Her husband is a pos drug dealing no having job in and out of prison. 82 times jailed in 10 years .. her police records almost as bad. So they came up with a plan. She wants money. The money he would be making selling drugs but do to jail time .. times .they fraud the state . Government, and poor dumb ass no street smart having asses like my husband. So she finds guys with good jobs and a Lil money. And she comes to them. Tells they had a 1 night stand. And she was married so she never told them. Because of her marriage. But now she's divorced. She wants to know. Let's do a mail in test.
She buys 2 people.
Swaps ger mouth her sons mouth. And whatever guys on the hook. Puts it in the lil envelopes. And acts like she gonna drop it in the mail. 2 weeks and find out .
She already has another kit at home with her husband's DNA. On a swap and switches Brian's for her husband's jemerys .. guess what.
Child support through Iowa child support recovery assholes taking and taking more and more money and the child's not even his. And she pockets that child support money and doesn't claim to the social security office or DHS.
$1200 a month for 6 years for a child there in no way ever be my husband and trust me we wanted and tried to convince but no .. donnor sperm or adoption only options.
So in and out of court fighting to get a real test. At a doctor. To end to the payments which was killing us. $150,000 6 years of hell and guess what.
We will never see that money back
Because in Iowa paternity fraud is not really a crime in the courts eyes.
Even though Brian makes the 3 felony paternity fraud she has committed and won't be the last!
So you see .. I stuck by him. Broke. Jobless. Hopeless. Lying. Cheating. No vehicle. No family do to what that lying whore and HER SON broke his untire family up. They took her side when Brian and I refused to be her built in baby sitter for a child that wasn't his. Oh fuk no!
Bad enough she was taking our money every week for 6 years .. goin on vacations. Trips. New clothes weekly. Hair and nails did every 6 weeks $500 each time. And me and my husband hasn't been on a vacation since we meet not even a night get away
So he owes me.
Death do us part.
He may lie but this is 1 promise I will make him keep to me.
He knows he pushes me to far and .. life in prison for emptying 1 of my guns in him . Not a big deal!
Room and board.. free. No adulting! No bills!
Fuk sounds amazing plus I'd keep my promise when I told him.. I'd see him buried before he embarrasses me .. and plays me stupid. Nobody else will ever step into my spot because I'd burn it down before id let that happen.
Even in death. My house is Brian's and our middle daughter's. Brian can never sell my 150 year old Victorian home. Can never move anyone in it. Or he loses it to my daughter instead. My truck . A Lincoln mark Lt. He never even knew Abt it. U begged for 4 years . Finally convinced him to buy it for me .
Found the perfect 1. Got the loans . My truck. My dream.
That goes to our oldest daughter after I pass away.
Trust me .. my hand is set .. and I want for his next hand.
Like I said
I never ask a question that I don't already know the answer to and I don't make foolish moves in life . My dreams. My goals. Our future .our plans that I spent days weeks years to achieve.
I will not ever let anyone take my place . Own my shit. Or live life nice because of my scarifies and goin without.
And because my husband is a dumbass .. I love him and as smart as he thinks he is.
He can and will play into someone else's hand.
I tell him his punishment for what he does and did . Us a pound of flesh.
The female he ends up with will be 100 not me. A bitch. Nothing will be good enough. Money hungry. Using him. Sleeps with everyone. Not caring or supportive. Not playful but always 💯 Abt her and her wants and needs and fuk him.
Karma for his ass. Yep did spells and curses to ensure it to be .
And he'll do it with nothing.
Starting over from scratch .. only having a job no home no vehicle no furniture
You see that's my Gibson in me coming out.the crazy but like I tell him I'll make an example out of him .. he thinks I play
Nah he'll see .. and should he keep playing me stupid.. he'll see sooner than later